Almost everything written about quitting porn is written by men, for men, and the research has the same tilt: data on women are comparatively sparse, and the main instruments were validated on men.
What the data do show is that the mechanics are not gendered. In a nationally representative Australian survey, 84% of men and 54% of women had ever looked at pornography, and among those, 76% of the men and 41% of the women had looked in the past year. That is roughly 64% of all men and 22% of all women. Not a niche.
Men report problematic use substantially more often, by a factor that depends on the instrument: around four times on the broadest screen, around nine times on the strictest. A defensible general-population range for women is roughly 1 to 7%, and the spread comes from which questionnaire and cut-off is used, not from real disagreement about women.
Whether women face greater stigma for use is widely asserted and has not been measured. What is clear is that the habit loop, urges, if-then plans and what to do after a slip work the same way regardless of gender, and that the format is irrelevant: erotica, audio and fanfiction are the same loop as video.
If you are a woman reading a baseline that was designed on men, read it knowing that. The six components still apply. The published cut-offs may not.
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- Mixed evidenceResearch on problematic pornography use has been predominantly male-focused, and data on women are comparatively sparse. In the largest standardised cross-national study (N=82,243, 42 countries) 0.72% of women met the PPCS cut-off, 2.96% the PPCS-6 and 7.01% the Brief Pornography Screen, against 6.26%, 18.60% and 28.92% of men. A defensible general-population range for women is roughly 1-7%, and the spread is driven by which instrument and cut-off is used rather than by real disagreement. Whether women face greater stigma for use is asserted in the secondary literature but has not been measured.Bőthe et al. 2024, Addiction 119:928-950; Rissel et al. 2017 (1% of Australian women); Grubbs, Kraus & Perry 2019 (3% of US women). The "1-23%" this register used to carry is a background sentence in…
- Well establishedIn a nationally representative Australian survey, 84% of men and 54% of women had ever looked at pornography. Among those ever-users, 76% of the men and 41% of the women had looked in the past year — which is roughly 64% of all men and 22% of all women surveyed.Rissel et al. 2017, J Sex Res 54(2):227-240, doi:10.1080/00224499.2016.1191597, PMID 27419739
- Well establishedMen report problematic use substantially more often than women. The size of the gap depends on the instrument: in the largest cross-national study men were about four times more likely on the broadest screen (28.92% vs 7.01%), about six times on the PPCS-6 (18.60% vs 2.96%) and about nine times on the full PPCS (6.26% vs 0.72%). Single-item self-labelled "addiction" measures give the smallest gap, around three to four times.Bőthe et al. 2024, Addiction 119:928-950, doi:10.1111/add.16431 (figures read from the paper's own tables); Rissel et al. 2017 (men 4% vs women 1%); Grubbs, Kraus & Perry 2019 (~11% vs ~3%)
- Mixed evidenceSexual minority men and women tend to report higher problematic use than heterosexual peers, with exceptions by measure.Understanding Differences in PPU, 2022
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